Winter Survival Tips from Kindergarten
The foreign population here at Lake Chapala has grown by leaps and bounds. Some folks are saying that now as many snowbirds as usual have arrived for the winter, but frankly, just from looking at grocery store parking lots, cruising local streets and trying to claim a seat in church on Sunday, I can't tell much business.
While local businesses and service providers eagerly await the return of the winter residents, the growing pains of our little Lakeside villages are apparent.
It isn't just the full time foreigners combined with winter folks that is causing the congestion on local streets - with the lake back to it's former beauty more of the "Guad Squad" (Guadalajarans out of the city for a weekend or a day at the lake). Add to that the vast number of our village neighbors who now have cars to drive and we're at a point where we all need to remember our manners and share the space on the roads, in the stores, churches and sidewalks.
Some of our coming posts will offer some driving, walking and shopping tips to help winter folks, and some full-timers as well understand the different customs here in Mexico. For today, how about we ponder Snowbird Season Survival tips adapted from Robert Fulgram's book Everything I need to know I Learned in Kindergarten.
Learn to Share - Parking places, park benches, restaurant seats, and the attention of clerks and waiters. We all need patience to enjoy the winter season.
Play Fair - We are the visitors in Mexico and we need to adjust and learn to play the game here according to the rules and traditions that have worked well for 500 years.
This isn't back home and it's not going to be?thank goodness.
Don't Hit People ? Don't even hit the cars parked in the yellow-curbed, parking restricted spot on all of the village corners this time of year?even when you can't turn the corner onto your own street?even when cars block your driveway?not even you really, really want to.
Clean Up Your Own Mess ? While many local residents don't speak English, they still understand most of what is said. Don't make assumptions that put you into a very embarrassing situations.
Behave well ? Have fun on your vacation; take your behavior cues from the year-round residents and Mexican neighbors. Don't push to the front of lines, refuse to yield the right of way, talk louder when your English isn't understood, push others out of the way or affect an attitude of special entitlement.
Don't Take Things That Aren't Yours ? Not even someone's pride or peace or joy or dignity or enjoyment.
Flush ? But not the paper. You can in some places, but when the problem is tree roots in old, small drain pipes, the smallest amount of paper could block the WC, creating an embarrassing problem for you.
Labels: snowbirds, visitors, winter
Judy King is publisher of Mexico Insights' Living at Lake Chapala, a monthly online magazine for people interested in Mexico's Lake Chapala region, in the state of Jalisco.
Judy, a 16-year resident of Ajijic on Lake Chapala's north shore, conducts weekly newcomer's seminars, shares her expertise about Mexico in her monthly online magazine, and in the "Mexico Lindo" column for the Lake Chapala Review.
Judy also is a speaker for local organizations and visiting tour groups about the Lakeside area and Mexican customs and holidays.






